MOPS and Me

In all my years of working no boss was more demanding than a child. I don’t mean a boss who acts like a child, we’ve all had plenty of those, but a little life that grew inside of me. 

I made the difficult choice to be a stay-at-home mom. The decision had consequences and one thing is for certain, it is one tough job.  Most days are great; other days are ones I care to forget.  My motto is “everyone clean, feed and no one dead.”  No ER visits count as a bonus day. Like all working stiffs, we need a short respite.  For some it is a weekend away or a time out.  For me, 90 minutes at MOPS is the perfect respite from motherhood.  MOPS is the acronym for Mothers of Preschools and is open to any mom whose youngest child is a few weeks old through 5 years of age.

MOPS started in Colorado in February of 1973 with the goal of connecting mothers. They ate, shared stories, tried a craft and passed the basket for childcare.   Today, not much has changed. See what MOPS can offer you:

1. Chance to meet other women.  Some meetings are during the day while other chapters accommodate working mothers.  One thing is for certain you will meet other moms who are going through the same struggles as you.  MOPS gives its members the chance to learn from an expert.  Groups host speakers on several subjects that are relevant to moms of young children.

2. You complete a craft. Each meeting has time dedicated to a new craft for any skill level.  Do you make Martha Stewart cringe or make her sigh with envy?  Then MOPS is for you.  Each meeting has time dedicated to crafts for every skill level.  I have used past MOPS crafts to decorate the house.

3. Breakfast.  MOPS believes better moms make a better world. You cannot take on the world with an empty stomach. Meetings include a homemade meal.

4. Loving childcare workers.  Some MOPS groups pay their childcare providers, while others volunteer their time. Rest assured that the kids are in good hands.  In the beginning it is tough handing over your children and take time for yourself but it does get easier. This is a great step for preschool readiness.  

5. The MOPS Steering/Leadership Team allows you to keep a pilot light on your career.  On the Steering/Leadership Team you have the opportunity to lead, engage in publicity, strengthen your financial knowledge and be part of a team.  

Wherever you attend MOPS, know that each group is unique, like each mom.  I encourage moms with little ones to check out their local chapter.  If the first group does not jive with your expectations keeping looking. Finding the right MOPS group, might be like trying on shoes.  You will eventually find a group that suits your style. 

September is the time when MOPS throws open the doors for returning and new members.  The MOPS International website can found here: mops.org, follow the link to find a local chapter.

Sharon, The Mayor of Crazyville